Author: allshadesfemale

My diary

The 2weeks wait

For anyone trying to conceive, I’m pretty sure this title hits a nerve. Well for me, it was the longest wait I had to endure being a person who has patience on their top 10 things to continue working on in 2020. #dontjudgeme For those unfamiliar with the term, the 2 weeks wait is the […]

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My diary

Google Adsense – How I got approved in 3 months

Hi guys, I’ll like to start by stating two things, firstly this is not a click bait, I personally do not like to indulge in it specifically because I like to think the information on a post and the headline or tag should not be in total disparity. Secondly I reckon this post is going […]

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Wellness

Staying Safe Amidst COVID19

Hello guys, This is just a warm reminder for us to stay clean during this global pandemic. The disease which started in Wuhan, China in 2019, has since spread to a lot of other countries. The virus is kicking so strong with about 339,645 confirmed infections and 14,717 deaths and a lot more people are showing symptoms […]

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ASF Recipe

Fruit & Youghurt Parfait

So I decided to make my very first home-made parfait today…..since I figured getting it from outlets was getting rather expensive. And hey! turns out it’s pretty easy to make….just slice up all the fruit mix you would love with yorghurt….and put In the fridge for a couple minutes….quick recipe below👇 Apple Banana coconut chips […]

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Love

Black Canvas

Yes I’m just going to act like this isn’t my first post of the year. #hidesface….jumps right into story..lol I was having brunch with a colleague X the other day whose past time hobby is painting. We had planned to tidy up a report we needed to submit the following week and decided to work […]

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My diary

Budgets are sexy….your ASF guide to managing your finances this yuletide

Wow…woke up in the holiday spirit, cant believe its christmas already and 2020 is around the corner. Oh, and I havnt posted here in a while..sorry guys. I started drafting this post early november and only just wrapped it up in time for Christmas as my gift to you…*no pun intented*..lol I knew I had […]

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My diary

Celibacy, are you crazy?

Hi ASF lovers, so this is not just me trying to come up with a catchy title tag-line, it’s the exact words a certain human said to me that ended an almost relationship. Oh…the memories….zzZzzZzzzzZZZzzzzzzzzZzzZzzzZZzzzzzzzzz…..Oh Snap! Back to reality. I mean I would love to tell the whole story, but this is not what this […]

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Travel

Travelling on a budget….your ASF vacay guide (part 2)

Hi Guys……..Hope you had a great weekend! As promised, here is the Part 2 to your ASF Vacay Guide post – Travelling on a budget. Click here if you missed the Part 1 and would like to read. ENJOY! Accommodation Hotels will burn through a sizeable chunk of your travel budget. Therefore,  if you have […]

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My diary

RAPE! When do we stop blaming the victims of sexual abuse?

I remember vividly the first time I heard stories about rape. I was in Junior Secondary school at the time, I was barely a teenager in a group of fellow young girls who had all barely hit puberty. We were a group of 5 girls who were best friends and would sit at the back […]

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My diary

Male Contraceptive – Are we enforcing Birth Control on the wrong Gender?

Last week, my WhatsApp contact posted a status update that got me thinking all day and I thought I should share my thoughts with you guys…He posted this: One man can impregnate 9 women everyday for 9 months, those are 2,430 pregnancies. One woman can only get pregnant once within 9 months even if she […]

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